Lesbian couple booted from Memphis church service
TEP questions gay-rights stance of pastor and mayoral candidate Whalum


Aug 24, 2009  |  Email  |  Print  |  Share  |  RSS

Pastor Kenneth Whalum, Jr.

Pastor Kenneth Whalum, Jr.

A lesbian couple is considering filing assault charges against certain members of a mayoral candidate's Memphis church claiming they were forcefully and unjustly removed from Sunday service.

As a result of the incident, the Tennessee Equality Project is questioning the pastor's stance on GLBT civil rights and how it could impact his candidacy for mayor.

Yas Meen and Monique Stevens told the Tennessee Equality Project's (TEP) Jonathan Cole that a group of about 25 men surrounded them inside the New Olivet Baptist Church in Memphis on Sunday, August 22, and physically forced them out of the building while calling them “bitches”, “Satanic” and “devil worshipers," Cole wrote in the Grand Divisions blog.

Meen, a retired school teacher, and Stevens visited the church that day for the first time in order to learn more about the Reverend Kenneth Whalum, Jr. who is running for Memphis mayor and serves on the Memphis City School's Board of Education. Meen had considered supporting Whalum's candidacy in the Oct. 15 election.

Whalum said the women were removed for being disruptive, not for being lesbians - but they tell a different story.

The women told Cole they arrived after the church service began and sat on the front row. Soon, they began to notice looks of disapproval from members of the congregation.

During the service, Whalum asked the congregation to participate in expressions of "sanctified dance" at which point people began to pray while dancing or lying on the floor. Unfamiliar with the style of worship, the couple remained in their seat.

"From the front of the church, the two women alleged that Whalum said 'this is my house and everybody does what I say. But two people won’t do what I say,'" the TEP blog states.

The women remained seated and Stevens extended her arm on the pew behind Meen.

"[A] security guard asked us to leave because we were disturbing God's House," Meen told TEP. "I asked what had we done to disturb God's House. He could not give me an answer. He just said you two need to leave. He informed us that he had called the police."

Not understanding what they had done wrong, Meen told the guard that they would stay and wait for the police to arrive. She said that's when a group of men gathered around them to force them out of the church as a church photographer snapped photos despite the couple's requests for her to stop.

"We begged them to stop taking pictures of us," Meen said.  "She continued and when she finished, she blew us a kiss and said 'God bless you!'"

The women claim they were taunted by children and had oil thrown on them by female congregants. Stevens said her glasses were broken in the scuffle and that they both received scratches and bruises from the altercation.

Meen said the security guard could not provide a reason for their ejection from the church until police arrived nearly an hour later in response to a 911 hang-up call.

"That's when he told us, along with the police, that it was because Monique had extended her arm along the back of the pew seat right next to [me]," she told TEP.

Whalum, however, told the Commercial Appeal that the women were “being disruptive, boisterous and speaking loud. They had to have some kind of agenda to come in church like that.”

“If I put every lesbian out of church, we’d be putting people out of church all day long,” Whalum said.

Cole, who serves as TEP Shelby County Committee Chair and TEP Board Secretary, said that the incident might warrant investigation as a hate crime if the women decide to pursue a case against the people who got physical with them.

"As this violent crime unfolded, Pastor Whalum said nothing and did nothing to intervene," Cole wrote in the blog. "As someone who wants to be the next mayor of Memphis, Pastor Whalum has some explaining to do."


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Posted by charli13  08/30/09 6:25 PM

What a terrible example of what Jesus would do And these are the kinds of people that call themselves "Good Christians". How dare they throw those women out of God's house, because they think less of the GLBT community? What Hypocritical jerks! That is NOT following the true meaning of GOD, nor is trying to change someone to make their lives more comfortable...We are here to love and help each other, not to act like that! Reverend Charli Braunstein

Posted by meechy_n_dezzy_n_luv_09  08/29/09 7:21 PM

I think its a crying shame that people are so ignorant. They dont need to consider pressing charges they need to definantly press charges. I am so tired of people slowly taking away our rights. 1st the adoption now church what more should we expect?? I really hope this mayor does not get elected its time for all of us to come together and fight. If you cant be safe in the church then where in the h@!l can you be safe?? I send my love to these two ladies, this is a form of hate and i really hope something is done and people are aware of this church and their hateful actions.

Posted by ickymail  08/29/09 12:44 AM

They might have been there to worship. From the story there are two distinct stories and since we (I) don't have the actual facts it is hard to say who is right. If they were truly disruptive, then yes, they should have been asked to leave. However, if they did nothing more than one putting her arm on the pew behind the other... well that is nothing to be ejected for. Seems like the reporting is just relying on hear-say to me.

Posted by Hmmmm  08/24/09 6:38 PM

I wonder what they were doing there in the first place and why was all that attention drawn to them? Wow, that's a pretty strong reaction for two innocent people checking out a new church!